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<entry><title>Three things a man needed: faith, practice, and luck (idea)</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/Three+things+a+man+needed%253A+faith%252C+practice%252C+and+luck"/><id>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/Three+things+a+man+needed%253A+faith%252C+practice%252C+and+luck</id><author><name>OckerJoe</name><uri>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe</uri></author><published>2006-06-22T01:14:23Z</published><updated>2006-06-22T01:14:23Z</updated>
<content type="html">&lt;p&gt;He was childless&lt;br&gt;
but his old skin felt &lt;a href=&quot;/title/simile&quot;&gt;like&lt;/a&gt; family.&lt;br&gt;
Twice a week at the track,&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;/title/1&quot;&gt;p&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/title/2&quot;&gt;o&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/title/3&quot;&gt;n&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/title/4&quot;&gt;i&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/title/5&quot;&gt;e&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/title/6&quot;&gt;s&lt;/a&gt; lined up,&lt;br&gt;
he had a system;&lt;br&gt;
and he'd &lt;a href=&quot;/title/onomatopoeia&quot;&gt;slap&lt;/a&gt; the rolled up&lt;br&gt;
as he cheered for ole number &lt;a href=&quot;/title/i&quot;&gt;4&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;

Then one day he told me,&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;/title/Arlo+Guthrie&quot;&gt;kid&lt;/a&gt;, I've been around a while&lt;br&gt;
and I know how things work,&lt;br&gt;
the track &lt;a href=&quot;/title/metaphor&quot;&gt;is&lt;/a&gt; life&lt;br&gt;
and there are only &lt;a href=&quot;/title/three&quot;&gt;three&lt;/a&gt; things we need:&lt;br&gt;
we need &lt;a href=&quot;/title/%2528that+we+can+win%2529&quot;&gt;faith&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;br&gt;
we need &lt;a href=&quot;/title/%2528at+picking+right%2529&quot;&gt;practice&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;br&gt;
and we need &lt;a href=&quot;/title/%2528to+make+it+happen%2529&quot;&gt;luck&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;br&gt;
and I suppose it made sense to him,&lt;br&gt;
he &lt;a href=&quot;/title/past+tense&quot;&gt;was&lt;/a&gt; a winner,&lt;br&gt;
but I knew it isn't the &lt;a href=&quot;/title/metonymy&quot;&gt;same&lt;/a&gt; for every horse.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;

And every time I looked around,&lt;br&gt;
I'd see the &lt;a href=&quot;/title/torn&quot;&gt;torn&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;/title/confetti&quot;&gt;tickets&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
and the gloomy &lt;a href=&quot;/title/desolation&quot;&gt;desolation&lt;/a&gt; of faces who lost,&lt;br&gt;
the old men in brown coats,&lt;br&gt;
who snuck off to the track,&lt;br&gt;
despite their wife.&lt;br&gt;
The men who went out every &lt;a href=&quot;/title/meeting&quot;&gt;week&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
to lose what&amp;hellip;</content>
</entry><entry><title>missed connections (idea)</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/missed+connections"/><id>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/missed+connections</id><author><name>OckerJoe</name><uri>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe</uri></author><published>2005-10-10T07:41:23Z</published><updated>2005-10-10T07:41:23Z</updated>
<content type="html">&lt;p&gt;Of &lt;a href=&quot;/title/cliche&quot;&gt;cliches&lt;/a&gt;, the one of two &lt;a href=&quot;/title/like+ships+in+the+night&quot;&gt;boats&lt;/a&gt; passing each other at &lt;a href=&quot;/title/Passing+in+the+night&quot;&gt;night&lt;/a&gt; is perhaps my favorite.  In our city scape rushes of busy nine to five, of hurried life our own world don't bother me because I'm short on time and on a mission, how often must one &lt;a href=&quot;/title/Two+Strangers+in+Passing&quot;&gt;pass&lt;/a&gt;, without knowing, the possiblity of &lt;a href=&quot;/title/magic&quot;&gt;magic&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
But our humanity has not been &lt;a href=&quot;/title/The+City+of+Lost+Children&quot;&gt;lost&lt;/a&gt;.  There are moments when even the most &lt;a href=&quot;/title/stress&quot;&gt;hurried&lt;/a&gt; among us have the sensation of &lt;a href=&quot;/title/love&quot;&gt;slow motion&lt;/a&gt; at the smile of a stranger.  There are moments when even the most cynical among us spend the rest of their &lt;a href=&quot;/title/day&quot;&gt;d&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/title/month&quot;&gt;a&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/title/year&quot;&gt;y&lt;/a&gt; wondering what could have happened &lt;a href=&quot;/title/if+only&quot;&gt;if only&lt;/a&gt;.  If only I said something.  If only I said something else.  If only I had asked for... &lt;a href=&quot;/title/Soulmates+who+will+never+meet+again&quot;&gt;if only&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
That &lt;a href=&quot;/title/grace&quot;&gt;smile&lt;/a&gt; is a missed connection.  That &lt;a href=&quot;/title/possibility&quot;&gt;if only&lt;/a&gt; is a missed connection.  That haunting of woulda coulda shoulda, that's a&amp;hellip;</content>
</entry><entry><title>Capoeira (place)</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/Capoeira"/><id>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/Capoeira</id><author><name>OckerJoe</name><uri>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe</uri></author><published>2005-07-17T19:12:47Z</published><updated>2005-07-17T19:12:47Z</updated>
<content type="html">&lt;dl&gt;
&lt;dt&gt;saturday morning on the &lt;a href=&quot;/title/bahia&quot;&gt;grass&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
a circle of &lt;a href=&quot;/title/church&quot;&gt;white&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;br&gt;
and the voice calls &lt;a href=&quot;/title/begins&quot;&gt;out&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/dt&gt;
	&lt;dd&gt;&lt;i&gt;agora sim que matarom meu Besouro&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;
&lt;dt&gt;and I am at the foot of the &lt;a href=&quot;/title/berimbau&quot;&gt;berimbau&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
crouched like a &lt;a href=&quot;/title/frog&quot;&gt;frog&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/dt&gt;
	&lt;dd&gt;&lt;i&gt;depois de morte Besourinho cordao de ouro&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;
&lt;dt&gt;we shake &lt;a href=&quot;/title/tradition&quot;&gt;hands&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
and begin &lt;a href=&quot;/title/dance&quot;&gt;dancing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/dt&gt;
	&lt;dd&gt;&lt;i&gt;agora sim que matarom meu Besouro&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;
&lt;dt&gt;with hands and feet we kiss the &lt;a href=&quot;/title/ground&quot;&gt;ground&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;br&gt;
music guiding &lt;a href=&quot;/title/ebb+and+flow&quot;&gt;us&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/dt&gt;
	&lt;dd&gt;&lt;i&gt;depois de morte Besourinho cordao de ouro&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;
&lt;dt&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/title/gotcha&quot;&gt;ropa!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/dt&gt;
	&lt;dd&gt;&lt;i&gt;como e meu nome&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;
&lt;dt&gt;and we smile and &lt;a href=&quot;/title/fun&quot;&gt;laugh&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
around the &lt;a href=&quot;/title/circle&quot;&gt;world&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/dt&gt;
	&lt;dd&gt;&lt;i&gt;e Besouro&lt;/i&gt;
&lt;dt&gt;paying homage to our &lt;a href=&quot;/title/teacher&quot;&gt;teachers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/dt&gt;
	&lt;dd&gt;&lt;i&gt;como e meu nome&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;
&lt;dt&gt;and each &lt;a href=&quot;/title/The+Everything+People+Registry+%253A+Brazil&quot;&gt;other&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/dt&gt;
	&lt;dd&gt;&lt;i&gt;cordao de ouro&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;
&lt;dt&gt;for this &lt;a href=&quot;/title/life&quot;&gt;game&lt;/a&gt; we play&lt;/dt&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;&lt;/dl&gt;</content>
</entry><entry><title>October 25, 2004 (thing)</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/October+25%252C+2004"/><id>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/October+25%252C+2004</id><author><name>OckerJoe</name><uri>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe</uri></author><published>2004-10-25T21:17:41Z</published><updated>2004-10-25T21:17:41Z</updated>
<content type="html">&lt;p&gt;Cooked &lt;a href=&quot;/title/lasagna&quot;&gt;lasagna&lt;/a&gt; on Saturday, good ole&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/title/spinach&quot;&gt;spinach&lt;/a&gt; filled &lt;a href=&quot;/title/the+best&quot;&gt;lasagna&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I've been eating it and sharing&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;it, and &lt;a href=&quot;/title/two&quot;&gt;two&lt;/a&gt; pieces remain.&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Rather, &lt;a href=&quot;/title/solo&quot;&gt;tw&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/title/dos&quot;&gt;o&lt;/a&gt; pieces remain&lt;a href=&quot;/title/past+tense&quot;&gt;ed&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You may not know this, but &lt;a href=&quot;/title/October&quot;&gt;lasagna&lt;/a&gt; takes&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;many many minutes to &lt;a href=&quot;/title/oven&quot;&gt;re&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/title/no+microwave&quot;&gt;heat&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And I was passing the time splendidly, reading &lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;some &lt;a href=&quot;/title/St.+Augustine&quot;&gt;St. Augustine&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;/title/piling&quot;&gt;ignoring&lt;/a&gt; my anticipation,&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;and many many minutes later I check my &lt;a href=&quot;/title/Garfield&quot;&gt;lasagna&lt;/a&gt;-&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;perfect, warm throughout.&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I closed the oven door and I saw it happen, like &lt;a href=&quot;/title/slow+motion&quot;&gt;slow motion&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I &lt;a href=&quot;/title/try&quot;&gt;tried&lt;/a&gt; to stop it,&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;but my &lt;a href=&quot;/title/great&quot;&gt;lasagna&lt;/a&gt; fell.&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It fell on the floor, splattered sauce everywhere&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;and my &lt;a href=&quot;/title/corizon&quot;&gt;heart&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;/title/sunk&quot;&gt;sunk&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
</entry><entry><title>October 8, 2003 (idea)</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/October+8%252C+2003"/><id>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/October+8%252C+2003</id><author><name>OckerJoe</name><uri>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe</uri></author><published>2003-10-08T20:56:46Z</published><updated>2003-10-08T20:56:46Z</updated>
<content type="html">10.8.03&lt;br&gt;
14.00&lt;br&gt;
Bjork &lt;i&gt;Big Time Sensuality LP&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&quot;Do you have a minute for &lt;a href=&quot;/title/Greenpeace&quot;&gt;Greenpeace&lt;/a&gt;?&quot; they ask me, yes, I do, I have both a minute and money in my wallet, but I have not the desire to stop and talk to you, though I appreciate your efforts.&lt;br&gt;
Is that wrong of me?&lt;br&gt;
Am I supposed to feel &lt;a href=&quot;/title/guilty&quot;&gt;guilty&lt;/a&gt; because I recognize the goodness of one's efforts but seek neither to emulate or support them?  Am I not allowed to do &lt;a href=&quot;/title/my+own+little+world&quot;&gt;my own thing&lt;/a&gt;, on my own time?&lt;br&gt;
Since I was 12 &lt;a href=&quot;/title/you%2527re+not+the+boss+of+me&quot;&gt;she&lt;/a&gt; has been telling me to &lt;a href=&quot;/title/volunteer&quot;&gt;volunteer&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br&gt;
I don't want to volunteer.&lt;br&gt;
Volunteering is great.  It is rewarding, it makes people happy and improves the world.  My time is the most precious thing I have, and sharing it makes the world a better place.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;/title/I+know.&quot;&gt;I know.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
I just don't want to do it.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;/title/Why&quot;&gt;Why&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br&gt;
Because I am a &lt;a href=&quot;/title/selfish&quot;&gt;selfish&lt;/a&gt;, lazy punk of a kid.&lt;br&gt;
I've volunteered in the &lt;a href=&quot;/title/The+Dead+Past&quot;&gt;past&lt;/a&gt;.  I'll probably volunteer again in the future.&lt;br&gt;
But now...&amp;hellip;</content>
</entry><entry><title>Dazzler (person)</title><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/Dazzler"/><id>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe/writeups/Dazzler</id><author><name>OckerJoe</name><uri>http://www.everything2.com:80/user/OckerJoe</uri></author><published>2003-05-19T18:48:50Z</published><updated>2003-05-19T18:48:50Z</updated>
<content type="html">In all of &lt;a href=&quot;/title/comic+book&quot;&gt;comicdom&lt;/a&gt;, it is &lt;a href=&quot;/title/Marvel+Comics&quot;&gt;Dazzler&lt;/a&gt;, and Dazzler alone who wields the perfect combination of super-powers, personality, and sheer star power that so many strive for.  Be she clad in a white sequin jump suit donning a full head of long, luscious &lt;a href=&quot;/title/Medusa&quot;&gt;red hair&lt;/a&gt;, or dressed for war while sporting a freshly manicured &lt;a href=&quot;/title/bob&quot;&gt;bob&lt;/a&gt; cut, Dazzler was, and always will be, the quintessential &lt;a href=&quot;/title/superhero&quot;&gt;superhero&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;/title/superstar&quot;&gt;superstar&lt;/a&gt;.

&lt;p align=&quot;center&quot;&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;big&gt;Humble Beginnings&lt;/big&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Alison Blaire started off life like so many of &lt;a href=&quot;/title/Bruce+Springsteen&quot;&gt;us&lt;/a&gt;, she was raised in a strict, &lt;a href=&quot;/title/Myths+surrounding+single+parent+children&quot;&gt;one parent household&lt;/a&gt; where fantasies were sometimes the only things that made life worth living.  While her father tried to instill society's ideals of the power of education and a steady job, Alison was dreaming of being a rock star.  Her father tried to disabuse her best he could from her foolish &lt;a href=&quot;/title/dreams&quot;&gt;dreams&lt;/a&gt;, but she persisted, like all true &lt;a href=&quot;/title/hero&quot;&gt;heroes&lt;/a&gt; do.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Aliso&amp;hellip;</content>
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