We can often do more for other men by trying to correct our own faults than by trying to correct theirs.- Francois Fenelon
update, January 14, 2008: Don't worry about me, right now. I found you-know-who yesterday and
he's alive and well and we talked
on the phone and then by message.After 11 years!
Life is great, even when big stretches of it suck. Much better than the alternative.
update, August 2008: yeah, uh... that reunion wasn't to last. But he sounded like he was getting a good start in life last time I talked to him. I tried to let him know I'd be there if he needed me. That's the best I can do, and I'm getting on with life.