This node was a response to some now non-existet things, but I hope it's still of interest.
Well, if we're going into
stereotypical thinking, take this for a stereotypical thought - women want men's company and
emotional support, while men want women's bodies. I know many more men who would like to
sleep with two lesbians than women who would like to sleep with two gay men, but I know more
fag hags than
dyke tykes. Makes you wonder
lioncub - I don't really think that
partial suspension of disbelief leads to male attraction in this case. While
social factors are obviously involved, our
brain does sometimes work in a simple, stupid way. The simple excess of
arousing visual stimuli is enough to account for the attraction the man may feel. So I agree about the difference in the dominant stimulation type for most fe/males, but disagree about the
suspension of disbelief point.