Do female homosexuals have it easier than male homosexuals? (idea)

It seems that most of society has an easier time handling female homosexuality than male homosexuality. Perhaps this is a charade that I cannot see through because I am not a homosexual female...

But lesbians are not often accused of being child molesters, while gay men often are so accused. Then again, women are not often accused of being child molesters, but men often are thusly accused..

Perhaps both groups receive the same amount of hostility, it just manifests in different ways. Hostility towards gay men being more violent in nature and therefore more visible. Hostility towards gay women being more emotional in nature and therefore less visible, but ultimately just as destructive.